Showing posts with label self esteem. Show all posts
Showing posts with label self esteem. Show all posts
Friday, 1 March 2013

Self Esteem FREE GIVEAWAY




                                             




Why is this book a most read for everyone?

Your partner needs your help in becoming alert to God’s WHOLE truth about him/her self. As that truth takes up residence in his/her life, he/she will begin to spot the lies and counterfeit thoughts of the enemy in his/her life.

I’ve read only about 3 chapters and I’ve already discovered unintentional ways I might activate dormant or even worsen self esteem issues in my partner. The book really does go beyond the obvious and;

1.      Explores the little clues that may allude to the existence and type of self esteem issues your partner may be struggling with

2.      Provides foundational help in building self esteem

3.      Strengthens your understanding of why your partner acts the way he/ she does

4.      Provides some universal precepts that will give hope as you begin helping your partner become free from the shackles of a poor self image

5.      Has esteem builder projects- practical application exercises that you and your partner can work through

What do you have to do to win?
To enter perform any of the options from No. 1 AND No. 2 below

Entry Rules
1.      You may perform any one from the following entry methods (to increase your chances of winning, you may perform up to 2):
a)  Like our facebook page by clicking here
b)  Follow us on twitter by clicking @EzerMeet
c)  Tweet about this promotion using this key word #EzerMeet and leave the URL to that tweet in a comment on this post
d)  Blog about this promotion and leave the URL to that post in a comment on this post
 
2.      Number your entry (so if the person who commented before you is 1, you’ll be 2 and the next person 3....e.t.c.)

3.      Giveaway closes on the 30th of April 2013, and the winner will be selected at random and announced on the 1st of May 2013. You have 72 hours to get back to me, otherwise a new winner will be selected.

4.      This giveaway is open to Nigerian, UK and USA residents (For Nigerian residents, please make sure you have an address where you can receive posted mail)


Goodluck everyone!  Remember- you only win if you participate. You’ve got so much to gain.....a more confident spouse.


Thursday, 28 February 2013

Self Esteem - The Beginning


It’s been a while since I read a book – not since last year actually. I’ve been soooo busy with one thing or the other that I’ve barely had the time. But I have repented of my ways and I’m back on track with my “One book a month” commitment.

In November last year, in my post Knock, knock please let me in!!!! I mentioned the book I am currently reading. It’s titled The New Building Your Mates Self- Esteem by Dr Dennis Rainey . I ordered 2 copies of the book from Amazon then, but due to some issues one of which is the fact that I live in Nigeria, I only received the books a few days ago- I’m actually glad they came late, or rather, they came just in time for me to read as I’m just getting back into reading. If they had arrived as expected in December, they’d likely be gathering dust somewhere – like the dozens of other books I have on my waiting list. So a quick shout out to God, Who ensures everything, does work out for my good.
                   
                                          

Some of you may have caught on to the fact that I ordered 2 copy’s- yep, yep. One for me and one for you silly! Yes, one lucky person is going to receive a free copy at no expense to him/ her- I’ll tell you a bit about that in a bit.

Even though it’s supposed to be my book for March, I actually started reading it about 2 days ago, and I’m in love with it already. The objective of the book is to build marriages (relationships) and not minds, there’s no point having all the knowledge if you do not apply it - a quote (from the book) that illustrates this point:

“The object of Bible Study is changed lives. The Christian world is suffering from a deficiency of Vitamin A- Application”
Dr. Howard G. Hendricks
Dallas Theological Seminary

In my opinion one of the major problems couples face in their relationships is a fear of rejection. If your partner sees rejection or any lack of acceptance, the result will be fear- and fear is one of the most powerful motivational forces today. If you want to see your partners self image strengthened, then you need to recognize that the fear of rejection is your enemy.

1 John 4:18a (AMP) “There is no fear in love [dread does not exist], but full-grown (complete, perfect) love turns fear out of doors and expels every trace of terror! For fear brings with it the thought of punishment “

The book talks about how fear will begin to dissolve in your partner under a steady stream of authentic love- that accepts and embraces another even in his/ her weakness - Your attitude can either fuel or kill the fear.

I really think it’s a book for every shelf, that’s why I want to share it with someone - I’ll put up how you can get your hands on the free copy tomorrow- till then......

Love

Ezer